Musical Age of Majority

There’s a cute little meme floating around the internet right now, which I picked up via MC at Culture Kills. The gist of it: wax nostaligic about the songs you heard at your coming of age.

Here are the rules:

1. Go to http://www.popculturemadness.com/
2. Pick the year you turned 18
3. Get yourself nostalgic over the songs of the year
4. Write something about how the song affected you
5. Pass it on to 5 more friends

MC quite wisely decided to skip #5, the chain letter part of the meme. I will too. I’ve also followed his lead by linking to the YouTube videos - you can watch them right in the SnapShots preview that pops up, or click on them for full size. Prepare for a time warp! The game doesn’t specifically say to pick five tunes, but that trend seems to have emerged, and it works for me. Here we go…

1987

Livin’ On a Prayer - Bon Jovi

OK, I never liked Bon Jovi, but there was something interesting going on around this time in the merger of metal and pop bands. Before the mid-80s, metal was the realm of those hair guys that wore all denim, smoked and took shop. But it started seeping into radio play, and turned into something different. For me, this started with Def Leppard, went through Bon Jovi and ended with Guns ‘n Roses (in 1988 my friend George predicted that Sweet Child of Mine would be the Nelson Mandela of music, forging a new peace between the bangers and the preppies. Nice try.) My only memory of Livin’ on a Prayer revolves around a French exchange with students from the Lac-Saint-Jean area of Quebec; the only English they really wanted to learn from us was Bon Jovi lyric translations.

With Or Without You - U2

Now here’s a song I can still defend. Sure, it’s overly emotional and overplayed, but there’s something about the way it builds from almost nothing to a cathartic crescendo that really works. I was a pretty big U2 fan in high school, and my graduating class arranged a road trip to see their Joshua Tree tour date at Toronto’s Exhibition Stadium. Afterward, the band I played in spontaneously attempted a cover of this song, which began with me playing that simple bass line on the guitar and went from there. Nobody was around to witness it - probably just as well - but it was a little moment of high school magic. But man, did I want an EBow.

Mony Mony “Live” - Billy Idol

This song defines the high school dance for me, which isn’t such a terrible thing now that the scars have had 20 years to heal. When you look at the other stars of 1987 - The Bangles, Huey Lewis, Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam, Tiffany - Billy Idol was by far the coolest of the lot. Mony Mony isn’t his best (remember Rebel Yell, or that post-apocalyptic Dancing With Myself video?) and of course it’s a cover of the 1968 tune by Tommy James & The Shondells; heck, even Billy had a studio version pre-1987 (the video linked in the title is a crappy 1981 TV lip synch). But MTV picked this version up and ran with it. And so did our high school. When the song came on at dances, everyone would chant something very obscene in between lines - did anyone else do this? My friend Chris pointed out, with some merit, that this simply covered up the lamest keyboard bit in history. Mr. Carruthers, our principal, pointed out that he didn’t have to put up with obscenities and would shut us down if we played the tune. As our school’s social convenor, I was supposed to enforce this ban. Instead, I had the piece of note paper with his edict printed in the yearbook: “The song Mona Mona is not to be played.” And we never played Mona Mona.

Heaven Is a Place On Earth - Belinda Carlisle

I have a terrible secret to admit. I have always been in love with Belinda Carlisle. Yes, she of the Go-Gos, and the happy lame-o song listed above. This is something of which I have never spoken before, especially back in 1987, when I was listening to The Police and The Clash and Dead Kennedys. But there was something about the Go-Gos; We Got The Beat had a sort of punky girl power to it that was way ahead of its time. And before them, Carlise was in fact the drummer for a punk band. (My crush began with Our Lips are Sealed, a tune recently remade by the Duff sisters.) Still, I doubt Belinda’s punk credentials would have convinced my high school friends. What put it over the top is that she was - and still is - fantastically, classically gorgeous. At least I think so. In fact, more than one person has commented that I married a woman who looks just a little like Ms. Carlisle. Coincidence?

Bad - Michael Jackson

Wow, there really was a time when MJ was the King of Pop, not the Wacko Jacko of the tabloids. Though I was blown away by the video for Thriller, I was always loudly snooty about disliking Michael Jackson. My sister had the LP, and I teased her about it - that white suit and fuzzy glow on the album cover was just too… well, as I would have said in high school, gay. I think it’s probably OK to drop that stance now, and put the best selling album of all time back in the “very influential” pile without worrying whether people will think I’m gay (I did marry Belinda Carlisle, after all…) I’m sure I scoffed at the Jackson Five too, but you can’t keep them out of the canon either. As for Bad, well, who doesn’t like a good gang dance fight? Then again, knowing what we now know, you have to raise an eyebrow at the first line, “Your butt is mine….”

Other top hits of 1987:
Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us Now - Starship
Died In Your Arms - Cutting Crew
I Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me) - Whitney Houston
La Bamba
- Los Lobos
I Think We’re Alone Now - Tiffany
The Time Of My Life - Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes
Faith - George Michael

So, what songs defined high school for you?

Posted by: Paul Gorbould | 06-06-2007 | 01:06 AM
Posted in: Uncategorized

10 Comments »

  1. Milli Vanilli, Paula Abdul, Michael Damian, New Kids on the Block? 1989 was not kind year to music history. And I love Prince… but the Batdance? Come on.
    The only good thing from the list was Fine Young Cannibals. (And perhaps Poison’s Every Rose Has Its Thorn but only for it’s cheesy high school last slow dance memories.)

    I have to agree that U2’s “Joshua Tree” was my teen angst album of choice. “With or Without You” was everyone’s breakup song that year.

    Also in tight rotation on my stereo:

    Peter Gabriel’s “So”
    The Smith’s “Meat is Murder” & “The Queen is Dead”
    Yaz’s “Upstairs at Erics”
    The Cure’s “Head on the Door”
    The Cult’s “She Sell Sanctuary”
    Bauhaus’ “Bela Lugosi’s Dead”

    Lots of Jimi Hendrix, Beatles, Stones and the whole 60s rock thing.

    But my secret guilty pleasure… Walk this Way by Run DMC and Steven Tyler.

    Comment by Jayne Bingler — June 6, 2007 @ 5:33 am
  2. Violent Femmes
    Hoodoo Gurus - anything from Candyapple Grey
    Stiff Little Fingers - Doesn’t Make It Alright
    Nobody’s Heroes - small garage band, you’ve likely never heard of them, but they were good.

    Guilty Pleasure - toss up between Adam and the Ants - Antmusic or Ranchero, or Nena - 99 Luftbaloons - German version. Maybe earlier than high school, but stuck on me like gum to a velour car seat.

    Comment by Jesus — June 6, 2007 @ 7:38 am
  3. frig, this just makes me want to cry…and dig through my attic for some old cassettes. I wonder what my girls would think of “Some Girls Are Bigger Than Others”? Perhaps they’re too young for The Smiths. damn, this makes me feel so old.

    I don’t know if this will make you feel any better but we all had a crush on Belinda, even us girls. and, it’s OK - ask Jayne!…we were singing to the Go Gos on the train from paris to amsterdam just two weeks ago! BTW: This type of behaviour will force old american couples to abandon their seats behind you for the lovely “jumper” seats between the cars… sometimes you just gotta live in the moment!

    Comment by havoc — June 6, 2007 @ 7:58 am
  4. I validate Havoc’s statement. We were doing the crazy Belinda dance in our seats and singing out loud. The Dutchies didn’t seem to mind but those old American fogies were pissed. We were also groovin to ” Check the OR” by Organized Rhyme. Now does anyone remember that?

    Comment by Jayne Bingler — June 6, 2007 @ 8:25 am
  5. I have plenty of happy musical memories of 1993, but apparently none of them involve #1 hits. No meme for me.

    Comment by Kev — June 6, 2007 @ 10:21 am
  6. Jayne: I feel your pain, and those turntable tunes were all big with me too. Sounds like you gals had a heck of a visit!

    Jesus: Hey, you never did give me back my Nena 45. I spent a full year thinking “luft” was German for “red”. Nobody’s Heroes were good, but they were no Social Crud.

    Havoc: Yes, it makes me feel much better to know I wasn’t alone in my Belinda love! But you didn’t marry a guy who looked like her (I’ve seen him - no resemblance.)

    Kev: I think that was the challenge of this, and the fun - none of the items on the list were songs I really listened to much. Seems to be a theme, actually - as I told MC, I’ve yet to read an entry on this meme where anyone admitted to liking popular music… those billboard charts must be wrong, because we all listened to The Cure :)

    Comment by Paul Gorbould — June 7, 2007 @ 12:15 am
  7. I can imagine the fear in the American couple with Jayne and Havoc singing on the train…

    I’m a bit scared to check out the results for my year.

    Comment by Mike Douglas — June 7, 2007 @ 1:18 pm
  8. I’m exactly two years behind you. Above all, it was Van Halen’s “Jump”, followed by (gag) “Karma Chameleon,” “We’re Not Gonna Take It,” “Pride (In The Name of Love)”, “Every Breath You Take,” “When Doves Cry” and for me personally, anything BRUCE ever did. He was then best then, now and forever.

    Comment by Erich — June 7, 2007 @ 4:02 pm
  9. A few weeks back I was on an all-gay Atlantis Cruise of the Baltic Sea and our special guest performer on board the ship? Belinda Carlisle! She was FANTASTIC (we gay boys love her too!) and she looks amazing, more than 20 years after breaking onto the scene. I remember my last semester senior year at Georgetown University, in spring of ‘82: “Beauty and the Beat” was one of the biggest albums in the country at the time, and you couldn’t walk into the on-campus grocery store, Vital Vittles, without hearing “Our Lips Are Sealed” and “We’ve Got The Beat.” Great times, great music. As for my favorite Belinda song: gotta be “Leave A Light On.”

    Comment by George — August 11, 2007 @ 4:29 pm
  10. Great story - thanks, George. I didn’t realize she was still performing these days - what a treat that must have been! And I had forgotten about Leave A Light On… I wasn’t a huge fan of that warbling thing she did with her voice, but the fact that I can look past even that is quite a tribute. Nice to have linked musical memories 20 years apart.

    Comment by Paul Gorbould — August 12, 2007 @ 12:28 am

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